Can
we think of anything more fragile than communication? By fragile, it means that
it can be broken down easily. There are so many opportunities for communication
to breakdown and when it occurs, it is term as ‘miscommunication’. Miscommunication
happens when there is a difference between the message the sender intends to send, and the message the
receiver perceived.
Let’s
break down a standard communication pattern into 6 different stages and analyze
where and when breakdowns can occur.
Stage
1 – Know what to say
Before
a sender wants to communicate any message, he must know what is to be send.
Ever encounter situations when someone is talking to you and you have the
feeling that he has no idea what he is talking about. Or worse still, he knows
he have no idea what he is talking about.
This
could happen when the sender is relaying a message for someone else, but have
limited information and is required to fill the gaps with assumptions or,
miscommunication have already taken place between the original sender and the
medium.
Stage
2 – Find the right words to use
Different
words have different meaning. Different meaning will lead to different
perception.
Language
deficiency could be one of the reasons for breakdown at this stage. Great
players do not necessarily make great coaches. One reason is because despite
their experience, they are unable to find the right words to piece their
thoughts together.
Stage 3 – Convey the message clearly
The
key to this stage is to articulate the message clearly, using the right tone,
at the right pace. Issues could arise when the speaker is not speaking clearly,
and the listener is not impelled to raise the matter.
Stage
4 – Listen to the message accurately
Moving
on to the receiver’s half. Breakdown could arise if the environment does not
support accurate listening. Setbacks could also occur at this stage if the
receiver is not use to the pace or language the sender is using, or, if there
are too much information to digest.
Stage
5 – Decode the message correctly
In
the receiver’s mind, the words heard by him are drawing linkages with his
understanding of each word. Again, language deficiency could cause break down
at this stage as the same word might mean differently between the two parties.
The need to assume if the word is not understood could also lead to break
downs.
Stage
6 – Translating message into thoughts
The meaning of each words are put together to
form a perception in the receiver’s mind. The same principal of language
understanding as Stage 5 applies, because words can have different meaning when
put together. Once the entire message is put together, the receiver will intend
to connect it with his knowledge.
If
he is unable to draw any links, he will not be able to fully comprehend the actual
meaning of the message, resulting in misinterpretation or misconception. When
the receiver translates the misinterpreted thoughts into action and it does not
aligned with the sender’s intention, both parties will realize that there has
been a miscommunication. Trust is also an element which might affect the
communication process at this stage. If the receiver of the message does not
fully trust the sender, he might interpret the message differently.
Communication
is a process of transferring information from one entity to another. In this
article, this process has been broken down into 6 stages, each containing
several elements. The process of communication is as fragile as it can get
because it takes just one element to breakdown to shatter the entire process.